Saturday, May 11, 2013

Peek into the future

Every once and a while Jay and I will take a picture of the boys and after looking at it, we'll say, "I can totally see what they will look like in the future."  It's hard to explain.  Sometimes it's an expression.  Or just the second that the picture captures.  But in that second we can see them as adults.  It's frightening and cool at the same time.  The picture below shows that.  At least to me.  I can see the same expressions 20 years later.  How crazy will it be if I'm right?
 

Thursday, May 2, 2013

Emotions

I think we've hit the part of the two year old development that involves a lot of conversations regarding feelings.  It's more than the famous line, "I don't want to" or "I don't like it" and more like, "I'm scared".  Scared?  Scared of what?  Sometimes it's a loud noise like a blower or airplane.  Other times it's something that's not real, like a monster.  Tonight John Henry screamed, "Mom, Dad, there's an alligator in my bed.  I'm not scared."  Ignoring the fact that he said Mom and Dad instead of Mommy and Daddy, I have to wonder what makes him scared (or not) now?  He constantly asks me if I'm scared of monsters.  Monsters, who's telling him about monsters?

He also likes to ask if someone is happy or sad.  If he's hurt himself, he wants us to kiss what hurts.  That I was totally prepared for.  What I wasn't prepared for is when he sees something in a book that is hurt (like the monkey that fell off the bed and bumped his head) he wants to kiss it and says, "Monkey not hurt, all better."

He also tells me to be careful.  This comes up a lot when I'm driving. Which leads me to wonder if he is scared when I drive so that's why he says be careful?  Who knows.  All I know is we talk a lot about emotions.  And thanks to the person that told him about monsters.  I really appreciate it!

No A for effort...

There are several mornings that I struggle to get both boys looking presentable and off to daycare.  This morning I was very proud of myself when I got both boys dressed and to daycare at a reasonable time.  They looked very cute and Schuler had an adorable hat to complete his outfit.  I was so proud, until I walked in and saw every other kid wearing pajamas.  Oh yeah, today is pajama day.  Great...